• Simpler than You Think, Part 1

    Posted on August 17th, 2011 by and currently 15 commenting.

    The only way I know how to write an opening line of this post using the word “success” – without seeming cheesy – is to tell you that I don’t know how to do it.

    There, now that I’ve gotten that out of the way, I can tell you that when it comes to the ingredients of success, I’m a devout skeptic. I think my cynicism comes from two observations: First, we seem to have an insatiable desire for silver bullets that will magically bag whatever type of success we’re looking for. “10 tips for this” and “secrets” for that. We want easy paths to victory.

    Second, where there’s a search for silver bullets, there’s always an ‘expert’ vendor who gladly sells people maps that mark whatever path they want to walk.

    Now, I think there are plenty of people out there seeking honest solutions, and plenty of companies selling them. But as I read books, articles, blogs and tweets about success – in whatever context the authors discuss it – I find that all too often the commentary bends towards silver bullets and under-emphasizes the good old-fashioned ingredients that have served people since the beginning of time: hard work and skill developed over time.

    Here’s the first of two examples. I’ll post the second one soon.

    The music thinkers over at hypebot recently published an article called “5 Top Characteristics of Full Time Musicians.” (1) (It’s worth noting that the author points out that for most artists, success means making a living at music, not becoming the next worldwide super star.) I can tell you right now that the list isn’t sensational, and it isn’t going to show up on Mashable.com. Check it out:

    1. They work (very) hard.
    2. They love what they’re doing.
    3. It’s not about the money.
    4. They have support.
    5. They don’t give up.

    Remember that these aren’t tips for success, but characteristics that successful people have cultivated in themselves. And it took a long time. The author goes on to say:

    One final thing I’ll say on this subject is that it often took these artists years to get to the point of making a full-time living from music, usually 7-10 years. Most “overnight successes” are years in the making, and nowhere is this truer than in the music industry.

    Where are the social media tips? Where is the “our agency has a secret that no one else does” statement? Where are the silver bullets?

    I’ll have more conclusive thoughts in the next post, but for the time being, I’d love to hear what you think. What do you think are the main ingredients to success? Do you think there are there silver bullets?

    • You can read the hypebot article here.
  • http://jeffhora.wordpress.com Jeff Hora

    I spent a number of lovely/tough years as a working musician and concur completely with these characteristics.  Passion, desire, staying the course while simultaneously rolling with the opportunities/punches and living with a day-job while “doing the work”….all components. There are no silver bullets or short cuts, really. I found the journey through that part of my life totally satisfying, even the really frustrating parts (granted, hindsight makes those look better now…). Having a clear view of the kind of place you’re heading to, even if (and especially if) when you get there it doesn’t look quite the same as you envisioned, helps to stay the course for one-more-day….

    Thanks for reminding me of those days and how they inform today.

  • http://brainsonfire.com/individuals/view/eric_dodds/ Eric Dodds

    What a great story, Jeff. Awesome to hear a real life example from a reader that reiterates what the author of that article posted. I love this statement: “Having a clear view of the kind of place you’re heading to, even if (and especially if) when you get there it doesn’t look quite the same as you envisioned, helps to stay the course for one-more-day…” 

    I think that’s a great ingredient to success. As always, thanks for stopping by and sharing. 

  • tracy

    The list can be reduced even more. If passion is present and embraced, you will work very hard and love what you’re doing and not focus on the money and gain support (because people like to be in the circle of passion) and you won’t give up. And yet, if the author of the list had written just the word “passion” they would have been developing and maybe selling a silver bullet. But the thing with silver bullets is that you fire them. And miss. And then you have to figure out what went wrong. Which brings us back to content and details. Great post.

  • Anonymous

    Love it. Back to the basics. DOING > TALKING. Work hard and good things will happen. We are not entitled to success, and it will not come easy. Thanks for this quick, insightful post, Eric.

  • http://brainsonfire.com/individuals/view/eric_dodds/ Eric Dodds

    So great to hear from you, Tracy! As always, awesome thoughts. Especially the part about firing the silver bullets and missing. 

    Hope things are well in the great white north – has summer been nice?

  • http://brainsonfire.com/individuals/view/eric_dodds/ Eric Dodds

    My pleasure. It’s a reminder to me as much as it is a reminder to everyone else. Isn’t it funny how often the solution is going back to the basics? 

  • tracy

    we have had less than an ideal summer. however, it is summer and it is NOT mind numblingly cold. I am content. very best wishes to all the BOF tribe.

  • http://justpaperroses.com/anniversary-gifts Jeff Block

    Successful people do NOT work “hard” – they work “diligently”.  Even if one equates “lot of hours” with “hard work”, it’s still not “hard work” to stay awake and do what you love for lots of hours each day.

  • http://www.bradentalbot.com Braden Talbot

    I’ve unsubscribed more and more to silver-bullet sites. Some are good, but most are canned or stupid obvious.

  • http://twitter.com/jamesarcher James Archer

    It’s hard to fail if you’re willing to do what next person isn’t, whether that’s train harder, study harder, do more, or simply admit when you’re wrong earlier.

  • http://brainsonfire.com/individuals/view/eric_dodds/ Eric Dodds

    Great point, Jeff. Working harder is not necessarily the same thing as working smart as well – you need both!

  • http://brainsonfire.com/individuals/view/eric_dodds/ Eric Dodds

    It’s cathartic, isn’t it? I love a good unsubscribe.

  • http://brainsonfire.com/individuals/view/eric_dodds/ Eric Dodds

    Great, great point about admitting that you’re wrong earlier. That’s probably one of the hardest ones, but it’s also one of the most valuable. 

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  • Crystal Bennett

    I think if you are doing what you love how could you ever be “unsuccessful”