• Happy at Work Project.

    Posted on April 25th, 2011 by Robbin and currently 8 commenting.


    Photo via LIbby Williams. Kindness is underrated…

    The other day I got the most interesting text from a new friend. It simply said:

    Are you always so optimistic or is it an act?


    Hmmmm.

    I have to admit, that question stopped me dead in my tracks and got me thinking:

    Is happiness a choice? Is it really?

    So I started doing a bit of research about happiness at work and personal happiness. Trying to see the connections.

    Do you know that only 45 percent of Americans are satisfied with their work?

    Wow. I realized I might live in self made bubble here at Brains on Fire, but how can that be? And what would it take to bring more joy and meaning to our work? Is career happiness a privilege or a lucky break?

    Or is it something in our control?

    If how you choose to look at life (being optimistic or pessimistic) is a choice or even an “act” at times, is happiness too?

    Happiness at Work matters.

    According this article: If the job satisfaction trend is not reversed, economists say, it could stifle innovation and hurt America’s competitiveness and productivity. We don’t want that to happen.

    So, let’s start a “Happy at Work” movement.

    Here are eight things that I think you can do to make your work happier. As leaders, bosses and employees, let’s take shared ownership on getting that “Happy at Work” percentage a bit higher.

    1. Try and find the higher purpose in what you are doing.
    Reframe even the most challenging tasks. I was talking to @mackcollier this week and telling him that about 10-20 percent of the people who reach out to me are looking for work. At Brains on Fire we try hard to answer every single one of those emails or calls. We are not perfect at it, it’s a challenge, but between about three of us, we try really hard. Looking for work is tough and sometimes lonely, so we have decided as a company that offering encouragement and little bit of time is the least we can do for those that reach out to us.

    2. Help someone. Ask yourself everyday at work how can I help someone today? Studies have shown that giving is essential to happiness. While we often think that we will be happier when we receive, the truth is we are happier when we give. This is also something in your control. So help a coworker. Mentor someone younger. If you are young and can help someone older at work, just do it. If you have a difficult client, find a way to make their life a bit easier. Chances are they are being difficult simply because they are dealing with troubles you can’t begin to imagine.

    3. Find a way to get outside every day. And encourage your teammates to do the same. Sunshine and nature and fresh air are vital to happiness.

    4. Listen more than you speak. Period. My partner Greg Cordell told me once that the main thing he tries to do in life is “seek to understand others”. And that makes him a great natural listener. and someone I am happy to be around.

    5. Stop judging others. Period.

    6. Focus on what you can control. This one is obvious but I am amazed at how much conversation can go on about things we simply can not control. Let go of those things.

    7. Keep your promises and do what you say you are going to do. So much conflict could be avoided in the workplace if we all did a better job at upholding this act of integrity. So even with the tiny promises, like “I’ll call you back. I’ll get you that list.” And certainly with the big ones like trust and honesty. keep your promises. With yourself and others. You’ll sleep better at night.

    8. Honor the “best friend at work” policy. Find a confident. Don’t spread misery but promise each other to support and lift each other up. Share happiness. It’s better when you do.

    I am sure you can add more ideas.

    How can or how have you made the work you do in the world more meaningful and happier?

    Come on. Let’s share.

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  • http://radiofreebabylon.blogspot.com Dave

    I am writing this comment from work, where backstabbing and whispering are the primary ways we operate and fear is the general mood. I would not be surprised at all if this comment were traced to me though the many fear-inducing employee controls placed on our computers.

    Your thoughts are very lovely, but if management doesn’t possess these notions, the troops are left to do battle amongst themselves. You sound like a rare company President, and I hope your employees are as happy as you.

    This place in which I freelance is filled with grumbling, our turnover is high and most everyone I know longs to be free of the stifling environment. Those few who are “happy,” the rest of us view as brainwashed blind, or bought-off.

    That’s the reality in many workplaces. Simply “choosing” to be happy is not an option for the person with any sense of reality. Moving on is what we strive for.

    And consider me one of the 10% mentioned above.

  • http://brainsonfire.com Robbin

    Oh Dave. I don’t know. I guess I have never been in that kind of environment. So perhaps as I stated, I live in a bubble. BUT, BUT is there not one thing YOU can do to make yourself happier? Have you ever watched the movie LIfe is Beautiful? Google it. I do believe even in the darkestt of times, we can find a way to find happiness. Prove me right. DO one thing today and let me know if it helps at all.

  • Sara J.

    I’m afraid I have to agree with Dave. It’s rare to encounter a single manager who embraces these notions, and it’s certainly not a view shared by management as a whole. I’m all for owning my happiness, but in these times when companies pile the work on too few employees and refuse to acknowledge, let alone reward, performance, happiness at work is more about existing below the thick layer of negativity and moving on as soon as possible.

  • http://www.linkedin.com/in/cheriallbritton/ Cheri Allbritton

    Robbin, first of all thank you for fostering POSITIVITY! I love that word. I wouldn’t normally do this but I’m sharing a link with you, a microblog post I wrote not for the company I work for but for me personally. It’s a story about one of my employees. http://bit.ly/gJL19B

    We all have our days and moments, but it’s such a pleasure to work in an atmosphere or with folks who inspire to get over it the minute you walk through the door.

  • still tracy

    Dave. Though you may work for the Friggin’ Prince and Princess of Darkness, though your cubicle neighbours may be Evil War Lords or purveyors of Winchellism – you can be content. And choosing to be content while in a battlefield and planning your exit is not only possible, it’s necessary. I won’t ask you to read The Secret (Oh Lord.) or create a scrapbook with pictures of puppies and kittens and clouds. I won’t ask anything of you. What I will do is tell you that when I worked in Hell with the Lord High Goddess of Control, Gossip & Negativity, I saved myself by utilizing the Holy Trinity of Survival: humour, dreams and gratitude. I gave her pet names that allowed me to release my anger while harnessing my wacked out imagination. I dreamed of a better work life for myself. I found things to be grateful for (no matter what. And sometimes it was a stretch. Thank you for this lovely office chair that actually has wheels on the bottom and moves). Consider taking a minute or two every single day to think about what’s next for you. What you want. And more importantly, what you can give. Because what you can give is what will lead you to your next gig.

  • http://brainsonfire.com Robbin

    Still Tracy. Well. Said.

    Cheri. Wow. Wow. I love your story about NATE!

    One of my favorite simple work stories is this. I walked in one morning and looked at Justin in our offices and asked him simply “How are you?” He said, “IN LOVE!” I have never, ever forgotten that. He’s just gotten married and had a little boy and that answer made my day. And made me think every time I am tempted to automatically answer FINE.

    Frankly I am not always positive. I lose my cool. But in the last few years, I have come to realize that every day is chance to grab and spread happiness. Even now as I sit in the Charlotte airport waiting for a delayed flight at 10pm… I am enjoying your stories.

    Thanks for sharing.

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